The last 4 months have been beyond hellish. My mother is still in the hospital due to her stage 4 bedsore. I have so many things to say about that that I don't even know where to begin. So I will just say one thing.
Bedsores are 100% preventable. If you or one of your loved ones are in the hospital for an extended period of time, and are not capable of moving yourself, make sure that the nursing staff turns you at least once every 2 hours. And not just turn, they should use a foam wedge to ensure that you are properly moved off your backside.
Since all this has begun, I have found out that the government agrees that bedsores are preventable and as of October 2008, is making hospitals pay for the care of these sores for anyone who gets one while in the hospital. That doesn't help my mom, but at least it is a start for others out there.
Mom could have been released to rehab back in January if it were not for this sore, and now we are still looking at least a month in the hospital. All the while, I watch her mental health deteriorate because they are doing nothing to stimulate her. So she just stares at the ceiling. I just pray that when she gets home or in another setting that this will improve. That is the hardest thing of all to see.
How have I been hanging in there? I haven't. I see a shrink now to try to deal. My husband doesn't think I am dealing at all. Its is an up and down roller coaster...one day I am fine, the next I cry at a commercial. Life just feels hard right now. Like its hard to get up, like its hard to function. But I will go on. I have to...for my family.
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